There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn
not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest,
in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance
away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring,
the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.

When they had all gone and come back, he called them together
to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was
ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no--it was covered
with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed, he
said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked
so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen.
The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and
drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.

The man then explained to his sons that they were all right,
because they had each seen but ONLY one season in the tree's
life. He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by
only one season, and that the essence of who they are--and the
pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life--can only be
measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.

If you give up when it's winter, you will miss the promise of
your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall.
Don't let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest.
Don't judge life by one difficult season. Persevere throught the
difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time
or later.