CREATING YOUR OWN LIFE

         

        Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there; they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be; your roommate, neighbor, professor, long-lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.

        Sometimes things happen to you and at the time they may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower or heart. Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests - whether they are events, illnesses or relationships - life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable, but dull and utterly pointless. The people you meet who affect your life, and the successes and downfalls you experience, create who you are; even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are probably the most poignant and important ones.

        If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally; not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love, and they are opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.

        Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself; for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you, either. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.

        Author Unknown

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        To My Friend

        Jim

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        From the Heart of Angel

        Thank you to each person that has helped me in the ways that this story mentions. Yes many people will cross your path as you make your journey through life. There will be roadblocks and hurdles that you will have to cross but I am sure that when those come there will be someone right there to help you with whatever you may be facing. Don't be afraid to reach out to other people and don't be afraid to let people help you. Sometimes there will be pain and tears will flow, but even that is necessary so that you can see how far you have come. Life would be so boring if there was never anything that happened to test you. We all cry out when we are going through trials of life and we feel that it is unfair for us to have to go through it, but all of it is necessary so that we can build a stronger character. And it is because of this strong character that when the big test comes we are able to make it through without falling to pieces. So if you have had people come into your life and then after a while they disappear stop and think of what you learned from that person.

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